Crisp air, golden leaves, and cozy romantic vibes—fall weddings are some of the most picturesque events of the year. But what should you wear to them?
Choosing the perfect outfit means balancing seasonal style with comfort and formality. Whether you're attending as a guest or standing at the altar as the officiant, we’ve got you covered with stylish, weather-savvy suggestions on what to wear to a fall wedding.
What To Wear to a Fall Wedding as a Guest
If you’re attending an autumn wedding, the key is choosing an outfit that suits the dress code, feels seasonally appropriate, and keeps you comfortable as temperatures shift.
Ideas for Men
Fall wedding fashion for men is all about texture and tone. It’s the season to lean into deeper hues and smart layering.
- Seasonal Suits: Opt for suits in tweed, wool, or brushed cotton. Deep neutrals like graphite or midnight blue feel both classic and seasonally rich.
- Layer Smart: For casual weddings, pair your suit with a lightweight sweater or turtleneck instead of a shirt and tie.
- Stylish Accessories: Pocket squares, patterned ties, and leather dress shoes add polish. Consider suede loafers or boots for outdoor events.
- Outerwear: A tailored wool overcoat or structured blazer keeps you warm without compromising on style.
- Avoid Summer Staples: Skip linen, seersucker, and super-light tones; they’ll look out of place in a fall setting.
Ideas for Women
Women have tons of stylish options for fall wedding outfits that strike the right balance between elegance and seasonal flair.
- Long-Sleeved Dresses: Maxi or midi dresses with sleeves are both flattering and practical for cooler weather.
- Rich Fabrics: Velvet, satin, crepe, or heavier knits bring luxury and warmth. Fall is a great time to wear darker florals or jewel tones.
- Layering Pieces: Shawls, dressy coats, cropped jackets, or wraps keep you cozy during outdoor ceremonies or evening receptions.
- Footwear Matters: Closed-toe heels or heeled boots are great options for chilly weather if you’ll be outdoors.
- Jumpsuits & Suiting: Tailored jumpsuits or women’s tuxedos can make a chic statement for formal weddings.
What To Wear if You Are Officiating a Fall Wedding
Your wedding officiant attire for a fall ceremony should strike a balance between formal and approachable. You'll be in many of the photos, standing center stage, and helping guide a meaningful moment. Your outfit should reflect the significance of your role.
For Traditional Ceremonies
If the wedding is more formal or held in a religious setting, a classic suit or dress suit in a dark, neutral color is a timeless choice. Shades of navy, charcoal, and black align beautifully with the fall season and look polished without being flashy.
For officiants who belong to a religious tradition, wearing clergy robes or stoles is also appropriate. Opt for garments made from warm yet breathable fabrics to stay comfortable throughout the ceremony.
For Casual or Outdoor Weddings
Officiating a more relaxed or outdoor wedding allows for a bit more flexibility in your outfit. Multi-piece ensembles work especially well—think slacks with a blazer or a midi dress paired with a tailored coat. The key is to choose pieces that look put-together while also being practical for the weather and terrain.
When choosing colors, go for neutral or earth-toned palettes that complement the setting and the wedding’s overall aesthetic. Your goal is to blend in beautifully, not stand out more than the couple.
6 Tips for Choosing What To Wear for a Fall Wedding
Here are six tips to keep in mind when choosing what to wear at a fall wedding.
1. Consider the Weather
Fall temperatures can shift dramatically throughout the day, so having options is key. Bring a blazer, shawl, or coat that you can easily add or remove. If there’s a chance of rain or wind, be sure to choose outerwear and footwear that can handle the elements while still looking polished.
2. Know the Venue
The wedding location will influence what’s practical and appropriate. Outdoor venues like barns, vineyards, or gardens often call for warmer fabrics and more stable footwear. Indoor weddings, on the other hand, allow for lighter fabrics and more formal styling. Make sure to still prepare for outdoor transitions before and after the ceremony.
3. Understand the Dress Code
Always refer to the couple’s invitation or wedding website for guidance on formality. A velvet gown or sharp suit may be perfect for an evening formal event, but might feel out of place at a relaxed daytime celebration. When in doubt, it’s better to be slightly overdressed than too casual.
4. Choose Comfortable Fabrics
Comfort shouldn’t be an afterthought. Fall-friendly fabrics like wool blends, velvet, or crepe offer warmth without being overly bulky. Look for options with soft or silky linings that allow for easy movement and help regulate your temperature throughout the day.
5. Stick to Fall Color Palettes
Autumn-inspired hues such as marigold, wine, or forest green are perfect alternatives to summer brights. If you like prints, choose darker florals or muted patterns that reflect autumn’s natural palette.
6. Respect the Couple’s Wishes
Even with all these tips in mind, honoring the couple’s preferences is most important. If you’re officiating or unsure whether an outfit fits the tone of the day, don’t hesitate to ask the couple directly. They’ll appreciate the thoughtfulness.
Ready To Choose Your Fall Wedding Outfit?
No matter your role in the wedding celebration, showing up with style and confidence is key. From cozy fabrics to deeper hues, there’s no shortage of creative ways to show up looking your best.
And if you're officiating your first wedding this fall, or thinking about becoming a wedding officiant, the Universal Life Church makes it easy to get started. Our online ordination process is simple, fast, and legally recognized across the U.S. Become a minister and you’ll be fully empowered to help couples say “I do” while looking the part in every season.
